Fortunately, the 21st century gives us a lot more opportunities in building relationships than the earlier times. Thus, new types of relationships emerge, so do new kinds of partners. This time we are going to talk about spoiled girlfriends, sex workers, gold diggers, and sugar babies – is there any difference between them and if there is, why don’t people distinguish all of them?
Sugar dating is gaining momentum at present. Sugar babies find their sugar daddies, and in such a relationship both of them get benefits. The former get financial support, whereas the latter receive woman’s attention and, most probably, sex.
Although everything is simple, this kind of a relationship can be confusing for lots of people. Therefore, sugar babies at best are often referred to as gold-diggers and at worst – they are confused with prostitutes. So where’s the line?
Why sugar babies aren’t spoiled girlfriends
The thing is that spoiled girlfriends take part in traditional relationships, what can’t be said about sugar babies. Traditional relationship envisages that a man and a woman date until they end up staying in a long-term relationship (get married, for example). All the chemistry between them is accompanied by such couple issues like going out on dates, planning their future, sharing budget, buying an apartment, going to cinemas and so on.
And when a lady starts demanding too much in such relationship with giving almost nothing back, she can be called a spoiled girlfriend.
Why isn’t sugar baby the one? Because she doesn’t participate in a traditional relationship. She has an arrangement with a man that she won’t rely on emotionally, they won’t have any future together and their relationship is confidential. All she gives him is her attention and only in the frames that they have established before they entered the relationship.
Why sugar babies aren’t sex workers
It is not a secret that lots of sugar babies survive thanks to sex. However, that’s not what defines them. When men start a relationship with sugar ladies, they expect more from them than just sex. If they wanted only THAT, they would turn exclusively turn to sex workers.
Sugar babies are expected to be amazing companions, listeners, entertainers. And often they stay in a non-traditional relationship with a man for a pretty long time – at least longer than a one-night stand – attending social events, theatres, cinemas, exhibitions and so on.
Sex workers, on the other hand, don’t enter any relationships with men, they merely provide sexual services for money, and that’s it.
Why sugar babies aren’t gold diggers
Gold diggers are thought to be dishonest women who date millionaires just to get their money. There’s no commitment, no fair agreement, no trust. Trust is crucial in men’s relationship with sugar babies as their reputation can be dependent on it.
Gold diggers only seek money, and they can get out of a relationship when they are satisfied.
As you can see, sugar babies is a very different category of women, who know what they want and have dignity.